Curse of Knowledge

In recent months, I have been witness to several different styles of relationship versus religion discussions. I have to admit, I have been surprised at some of the assertive ways that people speak of their religion. I have concluded these well versed religious individuals exude uneasiness in those of us who consider ourselves to be men and women of a quiet faith.

I listened with intent last week as a colleague spoke of a breakdown in communication which is termed the "curse of knowledge". Unfortunately there are times, well intended religious individuals speak passionately with the appropriate terminology only those in ministry cultures can understand. The result is those of us who are not well versed experience this "curse of knowledge". It could intimidate some more timid seekers to the degree they do not feel qualified to pursue a relationship with God.

Could the difference between religion and relationship be why the percentage of Americans who say they have no religion be increasing and the percentages of denominational religion are also declining? Supportive of that theory, nondenominational worship is on the rise. Could the fear of prerequisites of religious knowledge be a fear that prevents some from a relationship with The Father? Could this also be the logic why people are choosing nondenominational relationship over religion?

A foundational relationship with Him has no prerequisites. He wants a relationship with all who seek Him. He meets us all where we are.

I conclude there is a risk not worth taking of communications which convey the "curse of knowledge" of religion that discourages relationship.